Anonymous asked: What kind of wedding cake did you have? And why are cakes so expensive?
Our caterer provided incredible homemade key lime pie squares, and we had 4 or 5 flavors of mini cupcakes from Mardy’s Munchies in LA (highly recommended), so we had just a small cake that served about 8 or 10. It was red velvet with cream cheese frosting, and it was perfect, tasty and inexpensive (I think it was $32). We did the traditional “cake cutting” that my husband wanted, had a few bites, and our guests were able to enjoy several different kinds of delicious homemade desserts.
I’ve never been that into traditional wedding cakes, so I was happy to forgo one. The sort of sad truth is that the more expensive and beautiful, the worst the taste. The things that make cakes hundreds or even thousands of dollars (other than size), are the fillings, icings and detailing. Decorative fondant and sugar paste are that smooth, hard-looking icing that can be molded, folded and shaped — it is beautiful but so tasteless. Tastier icings like ganache, butter cream, etc. are also pricey and won’t hold up in warm weather. If you want to decorate your cake, it’s better to do it with a few fresh flowers.
Another secret? Many couples put out a fancy-looking cake where only the top layer is real (the rest is cardboard covered in icing!). The bride and groom do the cake-cutting ceremony, and then servers bring out slices of plain ol’ sheet cake from the back for guests. And that’s OK! Sheet cake, the kind you have at your birthday, tastes pretty good! It’s a crowd-pleaser.
Don’t stress about the cake too much. Many people don’t like cake and won’t eat any. Many people will be dancing and drinking and will forget to have some. No one who eats the cake will remember it later. They’re unremarkable.
On the other hand, people love cupcakes, small desserts and candy. I went to a wedding with chocolate-covered pretzels — amazing. At my girlfriend’s wedding, we gorged ourselves on mini cupcakes, that were delicious. People told me how refreshing and tasty our desserts were. So don’t feel the need to go the uber-traditional, three-tiered fondant cake route if you don’t want to.